Spoiled?!

Reunited with the table and toys.

I suppose it really sinks in that your child is being spoiled when it's not just you spoiling him, but the people at the local toy store, too! I took Marek to our favorite toy store last week. Not only do they have the best selection of toys, but they let kids play there too! It always bothers me when a toy store isn't kid-friendly. It doesn't make sense! If you're in the business of toys, it should be a given that you like and understand children...which means you know that they'll occassionally want to pick up and test out some of the great toys you are selling. I've been to too many toy stores where the staff follow you around like you're about to break everything if you even look too closely at something! But anyway, back to my favorite store that we love...We've been there so often - and he's so sensitive to change - that he immediately noticed that a large play table with his favorite Noah's Ark boat on it was mysteriously missing. I tried distracting him with other things to look at, but Grandma, who was with us, mentioned to one of the owners that Marek had noticed the table moved. The owner immediately had her staff move the table back for him! She said, "Marek - what would we do without you? You keep us on our toes!" It was really sweet of them. I guess the "you can't always get everything you want" lesson will have to wait until another time...:)

Happy Home

Every Fall I start feeling super domestic. It's probably the holidays or the weather. I really enjoy the cozy time of Fall and focusing on what truly motivates us and connects us together - family. There are numerous blogs that I stop by somewhat regularly and others once in a blue moon. Many of these blogs are written by friends or past friends, but others are written by people I've never met and never will. I am always inspired by the beautiful photography, stories and creative work that many of these people share. It inspires me!

Marek's recent collage from preschool. He was so proud of this and it was so meaningful to him.

I feel very lucky to have been blessed with a little boy that in addition to his love for trains, trucks, fire engines, building with blocks, playing with balls, and his all-around boyness, also enjoys helping me cook and bake and do art and crafts. I love my little boy!!!

Majegoria

Recently I was informed by my brother that my sister-in-law was in Croatia. He said this as if it was as normal as heading to the grocery store for them. If you know my brother, you'd understand why I quickly regarded his comment as nonsense. Of course, I thought, she wasn't in Croatia. She was probably at work, or shopping, cooking, or doing just about anything but heading to Croatia. My brother has always been the kind to pull your leg or exaggerate. He is so good at this - no matter what he says you'll believe it. I think his real calling was in sales. Of course, as a sibling, I've also been the victim of this - believing incredible stories, sharing them with others, then realizing I'd been played the fool! But it's always in good fun. When he was first dating my sister-in-law, she used to call my mom and ask, "Kevin says , is that true?" We share the same sense of humor for the most part, so it's always been kind of fun to hear his stories. But, back to Croatia...it was actually true! Who would have ever guessed? She went with her church on a trip to Majegoria. She shared some photos of her trip here. I haven't heard the details of her trip yet, but at least now we have photographic proof that my brother wasn't pulling our legs this time.

baby toes

My son's birthday is about a month away and he seems determined to not turn four! He tells me that he wants to stay three - or sometimes he even wants to be 1 or 2 again. He looked up at a photo in my home the other day and asked his grandma how old he was in it. When she replied, "1 year old," he said, "I want to be that old!" He did this last year, too, as he was about to turn 3. I have to admit that there are times I miss little baby toes and little baby fingers to kiss and cuddle. My sister recently mentioned how she wants to pick up every baby she sees. I know the feeling! I really love Marek at this age, but there's something to be said for that precious time when children are so tiny.

I still remember vividly being pushed along in the hospital wheelchair, in the middle of the night after giving birth to Marek. I'm holding my tightly swaddled newborn gently and protectively on my lap as a nurse pushes me along. We were on our way from the birthing room to my new room post-delivery. The nurse said, "Oh I just love that smell of a newborn. They only smell that way just after they're born - it's such a sweet baby smell!" And she was right. You never forget that smell or that moment, ever. There are only a few moments in life that I'd like to wrap myself around and bottle them up forever to experience over and over again. That is one of them.

Halloween '08

Marek had a few days off from preschool last week, so we were able to attend storytime again at the library. Luckily, we also ran into one of Marek's friends there and they had a great time climbing trees outside the library.

Halloween was a great deal of fun this year! Actually, several things occurred that I never thought would happen:

1. Marek wore a costume! This may not seem like a big deal, but my boy has never wanted to dress up as anything. This year he started talking about being a pumpkin...then a fireman...then a witch! I had the fireman costume all ready for him on Halloween. But he insisted on doing something different. We stopped by the store early in the day on Halloween and he found this inexpensive knight costume and was very excited about it. He wore it all evening, too!

2. He participated in trick-or-treating! Again, this may not seem monumental...but Marek is kind of a shy boy and last year the other costumes and noise turned him off of the idea. Our town does this wonderful trick-or-treat event every year. All of the businesses downtown participate in a trick-or-treat event during the afternoon on Halloween. It's such a cute sight to see all of the children decked out in costume parading through the town. We also attended a children's Halloween party where he got to play a few games. We ended the evening with a short trick-or-treat visit to a few of our close neighbors. It's so different from when I was growing up. There used to be groups after groups of children parading down the sidewalk and up to each front door. Parents driving by slowly in the minivans to make sure everyone was safe. Now, it's few and far between that you see children out in the neighborhood. I like the other options that there are for children now, but I also miss the old days of trick-or-treating.

Reflection for the Day

I read this quote on Beliefnet and wanted to share:

An attitude of gratitude creates blessings.
-Sir John Templeton

I was just reflecting on things I miss about the midwest, but I love living in the Pacific Northwest. I remember how much I missed sights like the photo above when I was there. Even if I don't head to the Oregon coast as much as I'd like, I love knowing it is so close!

Pumpkin Patch #2

We capitalized on the gorgeous weather this weekend and headed to another pumpkin patch! This one had a small haystack maze, apple and corn launchers, corn and water play stations, a tractor ride to the pumpkin patch, and a large corn maze (which we didn't do). Marek really liked the water pump. The goal was to race little rubber duckies, but he was fascinated with just pumping the water! We picked up a larger pumpkin and can't wait to carve it for Halloween! I miss living in the midwest this time of year. I remember when I was in graduate school in Bloomington and we'd go on weekend drives to see the lush colors and farmland. I loved it!

We're excited about Halloween coming this Friday! Marek changed his mind about being a pumpkin for Halloween. Now he wants to be a fireman. It's a good thing I didn't start sewing his costume yet!

Pumpkin Patch with the Maple Room

Marek's preschool class took a trip to the pumpkin patch on Friday. We all rode on the tractor out to the pumpkin patch to pick pumpkins. Marek initially picked a medium-sized pumpkin, but quickly exchanged it for a very small one that he could carry all by himself. After the tractor ride, the kids all had snacks of homemade donuts, apple cider and a chance to climb on the haystacks. It was a very fun morning! Shy little Marek wouldn't pose with his class for a class picture, but I did snap a few photos from the morning.

On top of the haystack, all covered with kids...

At the hay summit.

The climb begins...

It was a beautiful day. This photo doesn't do it justice at all!

Tractor ride

Smallest pumpkin!

Getting ready to head out on the tractor.
Still a little tired in the morning!

Monday Night Craft Night

We made skeletons and glittery pumpkins at our house last night for a family activity. Marek did a great job and had a wonderful time creating them. The skeleton craft was a really fun idea we picked up from my coworker who presented a Day of the Dead/Día de los Muertos event at the library over the weekend. Very easy and very cute!

Saturday in the Park

In motion, chasing Mommy at the playground.
Practicing his driving skills.
Feeding the ducks bread.
After he threw the last morsel of bread, the ducks began to make an unusual quacking sound and they all quickly swam away. I guess they were signaling to each other, "the meal's over, let's move on!"

singing in the rain

After a few beautiful, sunny fall days last week, the rain has finally started to fall. Marek took his new pirate umbrella with him everywhere this past weekend - rain or shine. He even took the umbrella to bed with him. I had to sneak back into his room after I knew he'd fallen asleep and quietly remove the umbrella from his bed. He insisted it wouldn't poke him in the night, but mom knows best. It's a good thing I'm not supersitious, because we've had the umbrella open inside our home for days now...

My little sack of sugar

Today was a gorgeous day! We spent hours outside at the park this afternoon, swinging, running, playing ball, climbing... This evening was movie night at our house. My little boy just loves this. We bring all of our pillows and several blankets into the living room, along with a special snack, and snuggle up for a movie together. He is the best snuggler in the world! I just want him to stay small and sweet forever! I already miss his tiny baby toes - they grow up way too fast! I can't help but sing "Little Sack of Sugar" when I think of cuddling up with him. (If you haven't heard the song, you really should! I love both the Elizabeth Mitchell version and the Woody Guthrie one.) So adorable!

Marek's first teacher crush

Marek loves his preschool teacher! He was talking with Grandma and the assistant Guide in his class on Monday. When she left, Grandma mentioned how nice the assistant is. Marek said, "but I only love one person." It's so cute! He just loves his teacher so much. He grins from ear to ear every morning when he stands in line to enter his preschool room. He sees her and just lights up. It's so sweet. We have conferences on Halloween. It will be interesting to talk with her more and get her perspective on how things are going. I observed him in his classroom on Tuesday. He was so interested in everything - and following the teacher around like a little puppy dog.

Next week the class is going to the pumpkin patch. I can't wait to join him! I think he'll have a great time, and I just love going to farms in the fall. It's my favorite time of year!

By the way, I just have to share this memory of Marek: Now that he has his guitar and puts on shows for us, he often inserts an enthusiastic, "Yee Haw!" in the middle of his song. I don't know where he gets it, but it's so adorable. He also puts out his guitar case and insists we put money in it while he plays! I think he's seen many musicians do this around downtown and at the farmer's market. Jake hopes his ambitions in life progress beyond being a street musician. ;-) He really has an ear for music, though!

No pictures...yet

I haven't been able to take pictures this past week or so because I seem to have misplaced my camera's battery charger. Now that I have today off from work, hopefully I'll be able to find it and capture some new pics to share with everyone.

Last week we headed up to Portland for a few days. Marek was so excited to stay in a hotel (he's still asking, "when are we going back to the hotel?"). I had to attend a conference and the way my schedule worked out, it was more realistic (less headache-inducing) to just stay up there instead of commuting. We had a few free moments when I wasn't at the conference to ride the MAX into town and check out Finnegan's, the toy store. Marek found a new addition to his puppet collection - Police Man. He then took Police Man, Fireman, and Chef - all strapped into his stroller - on various walks around town, up and down the elevator and throughout the hotel. He referred to them as his "kids." He also fell in love with fireman boots and a matching jacket, so maybe he'll decide to be a fireman for Halloween instead!

costume struggles

I love the month of October! The change of the season, those crisp, cool days with splashes of intense color, the smells, apples and pumpkins, golds and reds...and of course, decorating for Halloween! Marek gets really into the season, too. We put up Halloween banners, pumpkin lights, owls and cats, candles, made Halloween cupcakes already...we're in the October mood! We read books about apples, pumpkins, and Halloween. Our current favorite is Moonlight the Halloween Cat by Cynthia Rylant. This is one of those Halloween books to start off with if you have really young children. Not scary, but covers all the basics of Halloween - pumpkins, cats, costumes, children and candy! Cynthia Rylant is also one of the best children's authors writing for children. She can create a good picture book (Dog Heaven and Cat Heaven are wonderful to give to someone who recently lost a beloved pet and The Relatives Came accurately portrays the festive, crazy atmosphere of relatives coming to visit, along with the inevitable sadness that ensues when they depart), an entertaining and well-written early reader (this isn't an easy task - how interesting can a beginning reader really be? If you have doubts, see Henry and Mudge or Mr. Putter and Tabby books!)...even chapter books of note (Missing May won the prestigious Newbery Medal).

Ghosts in the House by Kazuno Kohara is also a really good, new addition to this genre. This picture book has great black, orange, and white illustrations. Of course, there's ghosts in the house, but there is also a resident witch who knows just what to do with those ghosts. She catches each one and then puts them to use - as curtains, sheets, blankets, tablecloths....very cute. Check it out at your local bookstore or library!

Anyway, despite all of this Halloween happiness going on at our house, Marek has been not-so-thrilled with the idea of dressing up in a costume. Last year I had two wonderful (and unfortunately, expensive) costumes ready for him to wear on Halloween. He flatly refused. Up until yesterday, he tossed the notion of dressing up this year to the wayside. But we were looking at a book yesterday of a child dressed up as a pumpkin and he said he'd like to be a pumpkin this year. Yes! So, I'm going to sew him a costume and then hope, hope, hope he'll actually wear it this year. He already declared that the pumpkin couldn't have a stem, be squishy or soft or....well, I'm ignoring those requests because honestly, how can you make a pumpkin costume that isn't soft and at least somewhat squishy?? Wish us luck!

Happy Birthday Michelle!

My sister Michelle is an amazing woman. She is a loving wife, the adoring mother of five children and one of the strongest women I know. Morning and night, day after day, she feeds, nurtures, educates, deeply loves, entertains, and protects five little souls (not to mention a husband, two dogs and countless other children through her job). She rarely complains, is always quick to be there for her family and give them endless support and love. She has always been my best friend, no matter our age or differences otherwise. She was the one I looked up to growing up (and so did a lot of my friends. I recall so many times during slumber parties or afterschool play that my friends would excitedly ask, "Is your sister here?"). As we grew older, I'd visit her in California and inevitably when we'd head out, strangers (mainly smitten men) would stop to talk to her or smile or wave. And many guy friends of mine have stopped cold when they see her picture and say, "Your sister is hot!" ;-) Anyone who has met her and her children see how beautiful she is and how she passed this along to her gorgeous children. But it isn't just her beauty that makes her special. She is a kind spirit, creative and artistic, fun, smart, strong, stubborn and protective. She has been able to overcome things I doubt some others could. She has a great sense of humor. She's the kind of sister and mother that would defend you to the bitter end...Stand up for you despite all odds and fiercely support you no matter what. She turned 40 yesterday and I wish I could have been with her to celebrate!

Hurry! Hurry! Drive the Fire Truck

It was the annual open house at our local fire station this weekend. Marek, being the shy little guy that he is, wouldn't climb aboard the engines, slide down the pole, or do any of the relay races, but we did see firefighters putting out a fire! He really did have a good time.
So did Fireman the Puppet...


Grandma joined us for some fun!


Heading home...

Mister M Got a Guitar

Yesterday will go down in Marek's history as a very important day - the day he got his first guitar. I don't mean one of those plastic Fisher-Price guitars that you push buttons and Elmo sings rock. I mean a real (albeit smaller) acoustic guitar. We've been making a few trips lately to one of the local music stories downtown. He usually wanders the aisles strumming their guitars, banjos, and ukeleles. Or playing notes on the uber-expensive pianos. (It's a bit nervewracking having your 3-year-old play piano on a piano worth $7,000). For months he has been asking for a guitar. He occassionally drops coins into his piggybank with the declaration that he's saving for a guitar. And yesterday, the dream came true! All afternoon he played guitar. When I came home from work I was greeted with an excited little boy ready to perform a show for me. I'll be adding some video here soon. He really has a taste for music and I'm going to look into Suzuki lessons too. It's really a great feeling to watch him grow and see where his particular natural interests and talents lie.

Preschool Observations

My little boy heads to preschool every Monday through Friday. This isn't exactly my preferred schedule for him, but this is how it is at his school and so far it is working out fine. Meanwhile, when I'm not at work, I hang around outside his classroom until the door shuts, at which point I can peer through the observation window. Or I swing by mid-morning to get an idea of what his day is like. Or I show up early at pickup to see how he's doing in circle time at the end of his morning. Many days I'm doing all three! The first day he seemed like he was nervous, but enjoying himself. I saw him working on a project and carefully finishing it to join the group for circle time. I've watched him follow his teacher around for lessons and gaze intently at her as she explains things, reads poetry or sings a song. I watch him sit calmly and politely at circle time, listening to songs or stories or other children sharing. And I also see him wandering around a lot. Not really aimlessly, but, well...kind of. He appears to be really taking in his surroundings. Watching other children, watching his teacher, examining the different materials and areas around the room. But, he is hesitant to initiate his own project. He just observes. And sings (a lot!). And fidgets a bit too. He's always been shy and a bit slow to warm up to new situations, so I'm not too worried. Preschool is a big change. And he seems happy to head there (although I have been asked "when are we going to stop going?"). He's never cried or protested as I drop him off at school. He seems to love his teacher. Actually in his words - "I kind of like her too." She is the calmest woman and so caring. I've watched his smile grow big and his eyes light up when she talks to him. But he still seems nervous about the whole experience. On the positive side, he does ask to stay longer to have lunch and play with the extended day children. We haven't done that yet, though. One step at a time! We'll see how it he continues to adjust...

On a completely different note, we have started decorating for the season. I love this time of year. We've hung up decorations and pumpkin lights and placed our first pumpkin out on the porch. He insists on eating off of his pumpkin plate now at dinner. His preschool is heading to the pumpkin patch later this month. We'll probably be heading there at least one other time as a family, too. I love trying to create new traditions with him.

Congratulations Kari!

My dear friend in Washington just gave birth to her first baby girl last night! Congratulations Mama! I can't wait to meet the little one.